it’s so so so true that men, especially middle aged white men, are the most likely demographic to throw a tantrum at customer service workers, especially if those workers are women. and it’s also so so so true that their tantrums are often actually dangerous and violent rather than just annoying. and even when they are miraculously happy with the service, they’ll still sexually harass you or otherwise act inappropriately so often. but when men act out of pocket people just shrug their shoulders and tell you to accept that “this is just how they are”, or blame you for it.
in every single customer service job i’ve worked, the vast majority of problem customers were men, despite how invested the internet is in pretending otherwise. but women are a much easier target for a lot of reasons, especially if it involves a convenient excuse for bogstandard misogyny, so g-d forbid we ever actually talk about it. :)))))
i get so scared. and i get scared again. yuo are never gonna calm me down. i get so scared. and i get scared again. you are never gonna calm me down. i drink a nervous drink. i drink a frightened drink. i drink an anxious drink, i drink a scary drink. i fear the scares that remind me of the scary times. i fear the scares that remind me of the horror times
Look it’s 2023 if your views on sex can be boiled down to “I think I should be able to judge and say what consenting adults can do in their bedroom because thinking about it makes me feel icky”